Bring on the whiners! I'll smack them down with a cold dose of reality. No one ever said life would be fair and I wll take anyone down that is whining about their trials and tribulations and the reality of "fair". It has gotten to the point around me, that some people when I ask them how they are doing out of my geniune concern, they reply they are doing pretty well and have nothing to compare to my health battles. In the last 3 1/2 years I have endured mutli-organ failure from sepsys, 7 week coma and ICU stay resulting in the loss of eyesight in my left eye, my right kidney has failed, I am in fairly constant pain from the peripheral neuropathy from the meds that saved my life. and 2 cancer battles in the last 2 years. It's not fair, but that's what I got and I don't complain. It's just readjusting to my new "normals". And I still have never whined about "fair". My sister in Sweden whined that to my wife that it just isn't fair what I am going through and we told her why not me? I have a great support structure, healthy attitude and people truly care about our situation. Next!