No , i dont mind saying, it was kinda part of the divorce. she ran up 50k in debt . took 30k from my savings , i had to live out of my house for almost 6 months during my divorce , mean while she sat in my house , never paid any bills . i did keep paying my mortgage. when it was all said and done i had to file bankruptcy. In the divorce she had a stupid lawyer and wrote up a debt owed to her 16k so i included that in my bankruptcy. i had to list my assets. she objected to my asset list to mess with me. Someone told her if she got the judge to see that i was hiding assets he would make me sell the bird and pay her off.