Thanks guys. This has been a tough fight and I am just burned out basically. Next month will be two years that this mess began and it just blows my mind that it has come to this. Oh well, stuff happens.
Tammy says we WILL NOT lose both the house and the car, selling the car will not save the house therefore we will not sell the car! IMO she is being stuborn although I do understand as the car is literally the only thing we have left. We have either given up or sold everything else off so I can see her point. Time will tell.