I'm right here with you guys. Here is what we've lost in the past 12 months:
Vision (down to 18* in one eye and zero in the other). Lost my career. Lost our health ins. Lost our 68 Firebird to a rearend collision by an illegal and subsequently have 6 ruptured discs in my back. Lost our first and last new vehicle ever (now driving a 1995 G20 van with a windsheild that leaks like a shower and has no heat HVAC is toast) imagine us taking this van to Buffalo in two weeks, should be a good time no doubt. Lost our house. The LeMans in currently on the chopping block.
So yeah, I hear ya about depression. I've just about had it. If I didn't have the greatest wife and kids on earth I would have pulled the plug months ago! I turned 40 two years ago and since that day, my entire life hs turned to absolute [censored] and we have lost basically everything at this point. LOL Oh well, at least I had a decent first 40 years, more than some get.
At this point all we can do is hope 2011 brings better times although at this point I highly doubt it...