The struggle is real, sorry to hear about the oil pan. The problem is as I am sure you know with the release on the cylinder, sometimes it seems they are all or nothing when releasing. As far as putting the 2 in together that is why I always use either chain falls or if available one of the arms on a 2-post lift. The problem with a lot of the available engine cranes is the reach and height are not enough when installing the 2 together without making it a 2-person job and a struggle. With a 4 speed like yours it's so easy to install after with the 4 bolts it's not even worth it.