Jim, If you read the posts again ,you will see that I also tried to help...I also called a friend (Joe Parish) who in turn called Jim Mattison also....
and my note to Pontiac10th did not say that 'you' specifically was condemning ..., it just referred to how people in life in general sometimes react...

sorry if you took that personally , thats not how it was meant!it was meant as a 'smoothing over'...